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Tuck the top in for that more fitted look and find a color that pops off the black for a good contrast and make the shirt stand out

While a lot of blogs recommend Tri-Sodium Phosphate, you can use any cleaner that wont leave a film

As Russell Smith points out, If the words black-tie optional on an invitation hit a panic button for most men, the words creative black tie are even worse

Bring one pair of versatile sandals that you can walk in and one light pair of water shoes if youll explore reefs or rocky beaches

Standard caveat: the holidays are stressful enough without having to worry whether or not Jan in sales will think your office Christmas party outfit is OTT or has an abundance of unnecessary tulle